1 00:00:00,189 --> 00:00:02,133 In everyday life , people can have 2 00:00:02,133 --> 00:00:04,189 negative experiences that they think 3 00:00:04,189 --> 00:00:06,411 about over and over again . While it is 4 00:00:06,411 --> 00:00:08,578 important to learn from our mistakes , 5 00:00:08,578 --> 00:00:10,800 getting into a negative spiral does not 6 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:12,967 help . The 555 technique is a fast and 7 00:00:12,967 --> 00:00:14,911 easy way to help us keep things in 8 00:00:14,911 --> 00:00:17,022 perspective . Tom just got chewed out 9 00:00:17,022 --> 00:00:19,245 by his supervisor and feels embarrassed 10 00:00:19,245 --> 00:00:21,840 and unhappy . Tom can't stop thinking 11 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,896 about the event and is struggling to 12 00:00:23,896 --> 00:00:26,118 focus on his work and feeling drained . 13 00:00:26,118 --> 00:00:28,118 He is starting to wonder if he will 14 00:00:28,118 --> 00:00:30,284 always feel this bad . Tom can use the 15 00:00:30,284 --> 00:00:32,220 555 techniques to rapidly build 16 00:00:32,220 --> 00:00:33,942 perspective by considering how 17 00:00:33,942 --> 00:00:36,220 important this event will seem 5 weeks , 18 00:00:36,220 --> 00:00:39,209 5 months , and 5 years from now . In 5 19 00:00:39,209 --> 00:00:41,376 weeks , Tom probably won't think about 20 00:00:41,376 --> 00:00:43,270 this event nearly as often . In 5 21 00:00:43,270 --> 00:00:45,326 months , Tom may think about it even 22 00:00:45,326 --> 00:00:47,700 less . And in 5 years , Tom may not 23 00:00:47,700 --> 00:00:50,540 even remember it . Using the 555 24 00:00:50,540 --> 00:00:52,707 technique helps Tom stop the spiral of 25 00:00:52,707 --> 00:00:55,040 negative thinking and focus on his work . 26 00:00:55,330 --> 00:00:57,163 So next time you have a negative 27 00:00:57,163 --> 00:00:59,108 experience and can't stop thinking 28 00:00:59,108 --> 00:01:00,529 about it , try using the 555 technique .